It may initially be difficult for you to talk about your heart failure until you come to terms with the condition yourself. It is important for you to understand that those close to you may also be experiencing similar reactions to you, such as fear and concern for your safety and well-being. They may need to share their thoughts and feelings with you. It is worth considering that any reluctance you may have to share what is happening to you may well affect the people around you.

Effective management of heart failure is often a group effort. Your family members can play a key role in supporting you to live as actively as possible with your heart failure. So, it is important for your own well being that you do not shut out family members from helping and supporting you at this time. Show that you appreciate their concern.

You may find the following suggestions helpful in talking with your family about your heart failure and involving them in ways that you feel comfortable:

  • As you learn more about heart failure keep them informed and updated
  • Let your family know the best way they can lend you emotional and moral support
  • Involve them in helping with aspects of your medical care issues, for example helping with your medicine regime or measuring your heart rate and blood pressure
  • Consider ways in which you and your family can do activities together, for example:
    • be open to active family outings with realistic activity levels
    • prepare healthy meals together
    • encourage other family members to make the same positive changes to their lifestyle as this can lower their own risk for heart disease.
  • Let it be known that you will accept help, but that you want to remain as independent as possible. People with heart failure often have certain physical limits but they also need to stay active and exercise regularly. This is an essential part of your treatment programme.
  • Explore this website together with a family member.

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